First, there many virgin men out there who are trying to figure out exactly ‘what the hold up’ is and how they can take care of it. Older male virgins have trouble getting into sexual relationships for all sorts of reasons from social anxiety to complex love-shyness, in fact there is a whole community of people who support each other in that regard. Second, it seems like the real issue here is that you seem to think having pre-marital sex with someone is morally wrong or a “sin†as you call it. You seem like a pretty smart guy, so have you ever considered trying to make decisions based on reason and logic rather than blind faith in something that may not exist?